It seems like all Blake and I have done this week is fight. We've been fighting more this week than our whole relationship combined. He hates everything I love and he just keeps running me down for liking them. I'm sorry but I'm a girl, i can't help but to adore Pride and Prejudice. I can't help but to enjoy the Twilight series. Anything with the slightest hint of romance and I go weak in the knees. So sue me, I have estrogen in my body, lots of it. I get so sick of it! There's alot of things that he loves and I hate, but I don't say anything. Then, I absolutely love history, and my current teacher is my idol. I wanna be a teacher just like him, so naturally I kinda talk about him alot, but I don't have much else to talk about that interests me because I never do anything. But one of my friend's told me I'm obessed with him, but she laughed and I think she was half joking, and then today Blake told me that I'm obessed with my history teacher, telling me that I talk about my teacher more than I talk about him. Apparently it's a crime for me to like something, everything I like people always tell me I'm obessed. "Jessy you're obessed with your weight" (i was told by my best friend when I decided to start trying to be healthier and monitor my weight "Jessy you're obessed with Kasey Kahne" (when I USED to watch NASCAR and got Kasey Kahne stuff) "Jessy you're obessed with Twilight" (when I read the books and liked them) "Jessy you're obessed with Being Erica" (when I watched the show and loved it) "Jessy you're obessed with -----" (when I began to admire my teacher, and wanted to be just like him)
So I guess it's a damn crime to like something for me. Screw everyone.
(as you can tell I'm not exactly in the mood to write part 3 of how me and Blake got together...i'll get it up eventually)
Hey Jessy. It's my first time visiting your blog. I personally think those things that you are into are not obsessions at all. It's normal to talk about something that are really into. I enjoyed reading all twilight series as well as watching its movies. I even read the last 2 series on-line since at that time the books hadn't been published in my country.
ReplyDeleteTalking about men, well, they sometimes live in a completely different world, don't they? :) However, in a relationship, based on my personal experience, we need to compromise a lil here and there. I argue with my husband on many things (well, I want him to know what I think and vice versa). As long as the communication goes on, I think things will run well in the relationship :)
So, it's indeed not a crime to like something :)